Let’s start this off with a list of the best mixed LGBT bars and nightclubs in Honolulu: Lesbian and gay bars in your area still work but they are not the only way to meet new people these days. We don’t all desire the same things which is why we are trying to cover all your options so that you can go with whichever sounds best to you. Plus we will get into all of the best Hawaiian LGBT pride events and meet ups we know about in this city. Since we live in the tech era the best LGBT dating sites have to be discussed. 3 Best Lesbian Bars & Clubs in Honolulu.